Note: The main star is NOT my sister

Feels like my blog has turn itself into a pet zone so whoever has pets to show off. Just send them to me! This handsome thing is BooBoo's dog call Spot Spot. Note the trend of repeatitive name? Anyway I was being "forced" by my sister to put this picture up. In exchange I can put up the other picture of us wearing the SKII mask which made us look like monster. I am still contemplating whether I want to do that. So anyway this is Spotspot...So cute and cuddly and his fur is so soft unlike my 2 monsters at home. Although the grass is not always greener on the other side. Its definately greener for me when it comes to dogs.

Anyway i am currently suffering from rotator cuff injury. For more information visit: http://www.mayoclinic.com/invoke.cfm?objectid=19EFBA2D-8046-47F0-BA265F0E5A590A78

So my shoulder hurts like hell and I have very limited movement. Is this what it means by aging?!?!?! It sucks!

Can You Spot the Odd????

SPOT THE FOCKER!!!!

Our first Christmas

Since this is my personal blog, I am gonna say WHATEVER I want to say without anyone giving me shit about it. Firstly I wanna say what a fantastic christmas I have had this year. Although it wasn't a flashy christmas. We didn't go to any party or celebrate in anyway whatsoever. In fact, blackie and I were asleep by 12.30am! But nonetheless, I spent my christmas with THE MAN. What more could I ask for. On Christmas day itself, Blackie, Er-Jie, Booboo and I went to cineleisure to watch Kung Fu Hustle. (Great show by the way go catch it. ). We had a marvellous time. I ran into Wenqiang who still looked the same, tall and thin, Fabian who has ballooned a bit and Zhihao whom I think don't really remember me! Also ran into my BRUDDER Shawn Wang. Congratulations on the new girl!!! You deserve to be happy more than anyone else! I love you!!!! Sarah Wee and I think is her boyfriend? So what is a better way to celebrate my Christmas? With Family, Friends and my Lover......

Secondly I would like to take some time and bitch a bit. On Christmas Day, I was invited to a movie by some friends whom decided it would be TOO AWKWARD for me and blackie to join them. In my defense, I would just like to ask whether were they thinking that on christmas day I would leave my boyfriend alone and watch movie with them?!?!?!?! Also, they should have the expectation that I would invite my boyfriend. Anyway, I told them that if it was so, it doesnt matter they can go ahead. I then purposely booked myself on the show at same place. Then I came back home and received a msg online from that friend saying that I shouldn't expect them to entertain my boyfriend. Entertain my boyfriend?!?!?! Its watching a freaking movie! I don't expect anyone to cajoule and make my boyfriend laugh! What's there to entertain about!?!?!?!? Juveniles!

Oh well, I guess relationships can be straining on friendships and I guess I can't and I won't please everyone. Importantly I am happy. And I am happy. Besides its Christmas and the New Year is coming. Time of forgiveness and forgetting. I am just gonna forget. Sleep it off. Behold 2005! A New E-Ying is arriving.

Friendships and Relationships

Isn't friendships an absolutely marvellous thing to have? Good friends are always there for you. Girlfriends always know what you are thinking and are fantastic shopping pals. I'm not one who knows a lot of people and have many friends. But the small social network I have is one that I treasure. Having the most immediate circle consisting of Jessie, Huiru and Audrey. 4 of us are really different yet somehow we are such good friends and have been so for the last 7 years. Jessie is the nonsense one who has brain the size of whatever and whoever that has a big brain. She is the one I go to to have no holds barred conversation. Huiru is the one you'll go to for help with ur arts stuff. She is the well read one whose GP is pretty good. And Audrey is the one I go to for serious advice. She subtlely gives you open ended advice that makes you think and ponder. I dunno what role I play for them but I wonder how can 4 such different people come together and been friends for the past 7 years? To the girls who are reading this, I love each of you to death and will always be there for you as you guys have been there for me.

People who know me well will tell you that I am happier as a couple. Maybe thats why since I started dating, I havent been single for longer than 6 months. I love being an "us". Especially now with MY Captain Tay. But what defines a good relationship? Do you seek happiness or as my da-jie say hopes that the partners helps you to be a better person? In the past month, I have come across a friend who is going to be a father, a friend who is "in like" with a guy and an accquaintance who is in an abusive relationship. I hope at whatever stage of a relationship you are, you are happy. Truly happy.

Here I want to thank Xiaohei. For you are one who accepts all my flaws, love me unconditionally, takes great care of me and you have become my best friend. Muacks. I love you.

My love for all things Japanese

Japanese technology is nothing but simply fantastic. 4 of us didn't really know what was going on when we took this series of pictures but we had such good fun. Almost everyone is back from overseas and its great. Even my bestest friend Jessie is home for a while.

Thank you Jessie

Thank you Jessie for this lovely belated birthday present

Just in case people dunno, this is a belly stud in the shape of a butterfly

Its absolutely FANTASTICO!

black's dog

this is my dog. his name is bobo. he is white with light brown patch. he has big eyes. and very cute. he likes to run around like a mad dog. i like him very much.

Our Chilli Crabs

Saturday night we had some fun

I deep fried some yummy buns

Blackie cooked 6 delicious chilli crabs

Which I help to kill and wrap

Here's the picture for you to see

Drool you shall but do not pee!

Spot the differences

For people out there with siblings; Sibling relationship is the longest relationship you will ever have. So treassure and make the most out of it! I'm glad my sisters are my closest and 2 of my bestest friends!

From left: E-Lin (Dajie), E-Ying (Xiao Mei), E-Chiing (Erjie)

Can you guys spot the following differences;

1. The colour tone variation
2. The smile variation
3. The hair colour andd style variation
4. OBVIOUSLY the height variation...hehe

I wonder why some people still think me and my erjie still look like twins...we obviously look so different!!!???

Look at my new dog...Floppsy

This is my new dog floppsy. She has white socks as ears.....

Lovely Legs......Colour Difference

Look at the colour difference of the lovely legs....Im so digusted with myself.....

Thank you baby

Just wanna say a big thank you to my baby for taking care of me the past couple of days. It has been tiring for you I'm sure. Thanks for turning up and watch me play ball and gimme foot/calf/thigh/waist/wherever-it-hurts-me massage. Thanks for doing laundry for me and knowing that I am tired, didnt wake me up till she has folded all the clothes, thanks for changing my phone battery for me. Thanks for everything, thanks for being in my life. muacks. Sorry we didnt get to do much this weekend due to the matches. Its hard for me with my dad and all, but you put a smile on my face and made everything easier.... you're simply da best!

quote for the week/month (whichever it applies)
"To love and lost is not to love at all,
to learn and not to apply is not to learn at all
to eat and not shit is to constipate".

black

Bruise  

The Phatom Players

Can you spot the Blackman??????

My Aging Process

Thats my mum on my right and her mum my grandma on my left. My predicted path towards aging....Recently people have been saying that I am begining to look like my mum...And I wonder if thats a good thing. I used to be called a direct photocopy of my dad and I get really piss because it meant that I look like a MAN. Now that I am apparently looking like my mum....Hermmmm. And lets hope i never have to live til Im 92 to see whether I will look my grandma. Well I kinda think her hair is quite nice. It turned white almost overnight and it was like a pugilistic master who "lian gong" until his hair turn snowy white.

So this is my aging path for you. You shall just be my judge whether I will age gracefully. =)

Destineeeeeee

Its a known fact. Women love diamonds. Even the most testoterone driven women. Well I am a woman...and I love diamonds. Blacks and I went to see Josephine (His second sister) yesterday at Lee Hwa Parkway where she works and before we know it, I was trying on diamond rings consisting destinee diamonds....

PS: to all my guy friends who are thinking of proposing to your respective significant other...see Josephine Tay at Lee Hwa Jewellery (Parkway). She really knows her stuff.....heheheheheh

for more information visit: www.leehwa.com.sg or www.destinee.be

Apparently, I have weird fingers....normally as I was told ladies left 4th finger is 1 size smaller than the right. Mine is about 2...My left is 13 and my right is 15. All the years of cracking my knuckles and fingers has really ruin everything!!! But the trying on of rocks are sooo fun!!!!!! I got the learn about clarity and cut and caret (more overwhleming then uni). And my necklace for the first time in years got a polish and it is clean and shiny now!!!!

Came home and blacks and I had the most serious of chats. Apparently he was very surprise that I talked about marriage and getting married so candidly with his sister. I din even notice anything. Made me think of a few things and told him some things that has been on my mind for a while. One of the things I thought about was that as much as I am against it, in Singapore it is inevitable not to get married because of a flat. Unless you are either really rich to buy private or have significant spare cash to both rent and save to buy flat when you are ready, it is only economically that 2 people get married partly because of a flat. Hence, I have made up my mind, I just hope if blacks wanna marry me, it wun just because of a flat. He said of course not. I believe him.

Though, the question remains in my head is that, how does one know when they are ready to get married? Although I still strongly feel that marriage is simply a celebration of a union and the government's way to encourage having children so we don't go into too mature a population. But it is still penning your signature, confirming your hopefully lifetime union, announcement of the union and for the ladies, changing your last name. When and how do you know when you are ready? Obviously age no longer mean anything because people marry at all sorts of age these days, from 15 - 50. But how do you know? Especially in this modern world where "til death do us part" doesn't mean a whole lot. Does one simply make a committment without much thought? Or are we all simply conforming to society where couples thrive and singles are often left out?